The romance of Shirley Muland and Alexis Houssou began as a potential real estate transaction. âAlexis was looking to start a project in New York,â Shirley recalls. âKind of a Soho House but dedicated to music with recording studios, and he was looking to buy a building with investors. I was working in real estate investment at the time, so our friend Antoine connected us.
At the time, they were both in relationships with other people. Alexis’ project never took off, but the two became friends. Six years later, after experiencing painful breakups, they fell in love. âWe got off to a slow start because Alexis became one of my closest friends, and I was afraid I would lose him as a friend if the relationship didn’t work out,â Shirley says. âAlso, I lived in New York and he was in Paris, so the long distances were also difficult, but not only did I not losing a friend, I won a best friend and the most amazing partner. It started as a professional relationship that turned into a friendship and turned into a love affair.
Alexis, who was born and raised in Paris and is now the founder of a venture capital fund called HCVC, proposed to Shirley, a brand strategy, influence and communications advisor, on March 7, 2020, at a weekend in Lisbon. âIt happened in the most romantic way,â says Shirley, âas the sun went down on a boat sailing down the Tagus. I didn’t realize what he was trying to do when he first tried. times to get on his knees, I thought he was falling from his seat on the boat, so I helped him back up until he finally said to me ‘Stop, I’m I’m not falling, I’m just trying to tell you something. We recorded everything on tape. It was my first time in Portugal, and I fell in love with Lisbon and its surrounding cities. At the end of the weekend, we decided that Portugal would be the place where we would get married.
Fortunately, the couple did not have to postpone or cut back on their marriage due to the pandemic. However, it was not easy to plan an event abroad. âWe got engaged in March 2020, started planning in May 2020 for a wedding in the summer of 2021, but quickly worried about the feasibility of all of this in the midst of a pandemic,â Shirley said. “We therefore decided to put the planning on hold for several months to try to have more visibility on the situation.” They resumed in November 2020 and worked with Joana Antunes on set, styling and coordination.
The civil ceremony took place on August 24, 2021, followed by a three-day celebration at L’Et Vineyards which started with a welcome dinner on the first night. âAlexis and I share different experiences and also had friends from all over the world, so we decided to have a party celebrating our roots and asked our guests to come dressed in an outfit that reflects the place we are. they consider themselves to be at home, âsays Shirley. . âAlexis’ mother is from Normandy in France and his father is from Benin in Africa. I was born in the Democratic Republic of Congo, grew up in Paris, and have lived in New York for 12 years, and our friends have come from all over. In a world where our differences often divide us, we wanted to celebrate each other’s heritage and cultures. It was also a way for us to break the ice between our guests and for everyone to have something for them to strike up a conversation. To honor their African heritage with their outfits, Shirley and Alexis wore custom-made wax prints by designer Angela Peralba, who owns a store and brand in Paris called Awaxland.
Shirley has always been a fashion obsessive. Very young, her mother introduced her to all the designers of the 90s: Mugler, Christian Lacroix, Dior by John Galliano, Jean Paul Gaultier, Claude Montana, Paco Rabanne among others. From there, she got hooked. “[Meanwhile,] Alexis couldn’t care less about labels or what he wears as long as it’s clean, stylish and well-cut, âshe says. âHe only cares about quality and fit. That’s something I love about him, his simplicity and how down to earth he is, which is the complete opposite of me. Both brought these particular approaches to the pieces they chose for their wedding wardrobes.
âFor my wedding looks, I was inspired by Carolyn Bessette Kennedy and the stylist Danielle Goldberg, which are some of my favorite style icons, âsays Shirley. âI admire their minimalist, elegant, timeless yet sexy styles. They are effortlessly chic and cool, and I love it. They both wore simple white Calvin Klein dresses to their weddings and looked stunning. This is what I was trying to embody and achieve for the wedding: simple, timeless yet sophisticated.
Shirley knew exactly where to find what she wanted, immediately turning to Galvan London for her dress. âYou can never go wrong with a Galvan dress for any occasion,â she says. âThey design simple yet sophisticated and sexy pieces that are timeless. You instantly feel good and confident in a Galvan room, and if there’s one day I want to feel that way, it’s my wedding day!
Last summer, Shirley and Galvan designer Anna-Christin Haas were both at a mutual friend’s birthday party and hit it off. âIn October 2020, I went to the Galvan store in New York to try on dresses,â Shirley recalls. âI ended up buying the Mayfair dress. It is in silk satin and has an asymmetrical neckline and a spectacular silk belt that cascades down the back. It’s very elegant and an investment piece that I know I can re-wear outside of a wedding setting, and that’s special about Galvan – their dresses can be re-worn endlessly.
Since she opted for a simple dress, Shirley wanted to have a veil with details. âBecause my mom and sisters couldn’t make it to my dress tests in New York, we had a sailing test in Paris at Pronovias,â says Shirley. âI opted for a long tulle veil with a thick border of white scalloped Chantilly lace.
Bride’s friend Laura Martel is the head of the fine jewelry group at Chanel, and she loaned Shirley jewelry for her wedding. âI shared photos of my dress and then she sent me a few options,â says Shirley. âI opted for a pair of earrings from the CamÃ©lia collection in white gold and diamonds, then the matching necklace to accompany my evening dress later that night. These pieces are so stylish and perfectly match the overall look I wanted. “
One of the clients of Shirley, the French own beauty brand La Bouche Rouge, offers a bespoke service for lipsticks, and CEO Nicolas Gerlier offered to create custom shades as a wedding gift. âOne of my favorite makeup artists, Harold James, helped me create the nuances, âshe says. “We went with two shades, a nude pink for the ceremony which we called Ceremony and a red rose for the party which we simply called Party.”
Once there, Shirley worked with the makeup artist Miguel stapleton to achieve a natural beauty look. âI didn’t have a lot of direction to give, I just let him do it, and it was perfect,â she says. Hairdresser Lilia costa created a classic and elegant bun for the occasion.
The ceremony, like anything the couple wanted, was perfect in its simplicity. âBeing a nun, I always wanted to get married in a church,â says the bride. âI was brought up in Catholicism, but I became a Protestant when I was 16. There was no Protestant church near our site, so we had to abandon this idea and have an official pastor on site.
The service took place in the afternoon, in the hotel garden, facing the lake. âWe were both missing a parent for the ceremony, so we decided that Alexis’ dad would walk me down the aisle and my mom would walk Alexis down the aisle,â says Shirley. After the violinist started playing, marking the start of the ceremony, the flower girls – Alexis’ nieces, Salome and Josephine – paraded down the aisle, throwing rose petals from a small basket. âThey couldn’t have been more adorable in their matching dresses, shoes and flower crowns, they were real angels,â says Shirley.
âAlexis and I were proud to have been so relaxed along the way,â says Shirley, ââ¦ until a car picked me up from my mother’s suite to take me there. entrance to the hotel! [At that point,] I started to get nervous and was overcome with a wave of emotions that I didn’t see coming. But when I saw Alexis waiting for me in the aisle, all that stress immediately disappeared. I lit up instantly, and felt very present throughout the ceremony but still very emotional. I got it all and felt so happy to see all of our friends and families here with us after all these months of planning and uncertainty. I felt grateful to be in front of Alexis, finally on the verge of becoming husband and wife.
After pronouncing husband and wife, the newlyweds signed their marriage certificates and joined the guests, who were waiting for them to congratulate them with a cocktail in hand. A saxophonist played as the couple took photos – and when BeyoncÃ©’s “Single Ladies” kicked off, Shirley knew it was time to kick the bouquet. âI didn’t expect what happened next,â she says. âA fierce battle between my mother and my sister Cynthia and no one wanted to let go! But Cynthia ended up winning. It was quite shocking and hilarious at the same time! The dinner was followed by touching speeches from family members. Afterward, Shirley donned a second Galvan dress and the dance party continued until 4 a.m.